I know one thing for certain… I am not going to get this whole motherhood thing completely right. I know there are things I do well, and that there are also things I need to work to do better. I realize that no matter how hard I work – I will not get it perfectly figured out.
I am okay with that.
I will keep working on it anyway.
Feet on ground…
Heart in hand…
Facing forward…
Be yourself…
Parenting is dynamic… it shifts and changes… and we get a part of it moving smoothly and something else, some other variable throws a curve. I know there will be ups and downs and wonderful moments and some that will come near to ripping out my heart. That it is dynamic, brings challenges and struggle… but it also brings the joy and marvel of this journey.
Feet on ground…
Heart in hand…
Facing forward…
Be yourself…
Today Craig the Amazing took us out for a Burger Brunch (Unusual – yes – but it suited us quite perfectly – and we may just be starting a new line-avoiding tradition) and H gave me this card and these lovely flowers.
I love that my son’s card reflects his sense of my acceptance of who he is… this is a part of how he will come to have acceptance within himself.
That made my day!
When, I asked H a bit about the card, he elaborated with, “C’mon, it’s Snoopy! You can’t argue with that!”
I must also express appreciation to my Mother for modelling and teaching me about integrity, kindness, being myself and about resilience.
It is a positive legacy… as we make our way on this far from ordinary… and yet, conversely, extraordinary journey!
Feet on ground…
Heart in hand…
Facing forward…
Be yourself…
Please Note: This post has a theme song… Take a listen to this great song from one of my favourite Canadian artists, Jann Arden: Good Mother
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